Author Archives: De-Me-Stified

What’s in a Name?

[Image Source] “The name of a man is a numbing blow from which he never recovers” – Marshall McLuhan “…..That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet” – William Shakespeare Did you ever get … Continue reading

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The Gift and The Curse

[Image Source] “What we are is God’s gift to us. What we become is our gift to God” – Eleanor Powell “Life is like a Thai Cuisine; the sweet always comes with the sour” – Imisi The mere existence of … Continue reading

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Nigeria: The Flaccid Trigger [Part 1]

[Image Source] “Ideas pull the trigger but instinct loads the gun” – Don Marquis         “The black man says it’s the white man. The white man says it’s the black man. Indians say it’s the coloured. The coloured say it’s … Continue reading

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Nigeria: The Flaccid Trigger [Part 2]

[Image Source] “Have an aim in life – then don’t forget to pull the trigger” “You get more done with a kind word and a gun than with a kind word alone” – Al Capone Please read Part 1 here. … Continue reading

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Death: The Ultimate Beginning

[Image Source] “Because I have loved life, I shall have no sorrow to die” – Amelia Burr A few days ago, I was taking a trip from the heart of the city to a suburb. The road was busy and … Continue reading

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Sermons: What’s The Point?

[Image Source] “A politician will say what the people want to hear. A motivator will say what the people need to hear. Learn to say what you want the way they like to hear it” – Imisi First, I must … Continue reading

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The Great Rebellion [Part 2]

[Image Source] Please read Part 1 here. “Life is a foreign language; all men mispronounce it”  – Christopher Morley By age 14, I had literally been pushed into the wall. I had set the domestic record for stooping down (about … Continue reading

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The Great Rebellion [Part 1]

[Image Source] “Just because everything is changing doesn’t mean it’s never been this way before” – Regina Spektor Life! What a thing! It’s lived forwards but can only be understood backwards! The only way to really understand life is having … Continue reading

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Live and Let Fly!

[Image Source] “Anger is never without a reason, but seldom with a good one” – Benjamin Franklin “Anger is like a boomerang. It always comes back at you” – Imisi A long while back, I was feeling unwell for longer … Continue reading

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The Horny Unicorn

[Image Source] “Lust’s passion will be served; it demands, it militates, it tyrannizes” – Marquis De Sade“Of all the worldly passions, lust is the most intense. All others seem to follow in its train” – Gautama Siddharta I’m pretty convinced … Continue reading

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